We’re having a She

Im sitting here while Dan is feeding Bodie dinner and have a bit to update.  I wanted to update you all one on our little She. I know im a totally lame blogger lately with no pictures of fun stuff, but im working on that, and stuff like doing the dishes first! haha

We are having a GIRL. Quite the surprise let me tell you. :)

With our first ultrasound the tech thought ‘Bebe’ was looking more like a him, but told us it could go either way at that point. We are about 14 and a half weeks then, and we found out with what bodie was at 15 weeks on the dot. So I just figured it was a boy, because i had to have something. ;) With our last ultrasound we had a very crusty lady who was super rude to us as parents. Anyway, at the end she told us its a girl…..


Of course it was so shocking I cried, and was overwhelmed with joy. We both were. A new dynamic to our little family. As we left the hospital, i think it was more sobriety setting in and nerves.

A girl? What the heck am i going to do with a girl?

Not anything in a bad way, but more of how am i going to do this. A whole new place then i have ever been before. Im not a dolls and ‘princess’ kinda girl anyways. Actually i hate dolls because they are extremely creepy and scary. Always have.

I cant wait for the tutu’s, chucks, crazy hair, little girl. That will be a blast, but she wont have a choice. It will be fun and exciting, and a roller coaster, and you know…..all of the above. :) I do really look forward to all the wonderful baby girl sewing projects out there, and summer will be a great time for some of those! Lets hope sewing itsn’t one of those things that make me hit my ‘limit’ :/ haha

OK moving on.

Everything finally seemed to fall into place one we found out it was a girl. We had absolutely NO boy names that we even liked, and really had no other connection with this one being a boy.  She is totally calm and easy going. Very chill in our ultrasounds, and everyday. Bodie had much harder kicks, and felt like he was literally doing cartwheels and sucker punches to my bladder. She is very soft moving, and more just feels like she is adjusting to get comfortable, or moving her hands and feet. Nothing to dramatic, not yet atleast.

As far as our name we picked out, i gave a few hints awhile back. but here is her name and how we came across it. :)

Elsie Joy

I actually found the name Elsie a long time before we ever were pregnant. I was searching girls names, and came across a sight that went back to the 1800’s top 150 names of that time. AWESOME! So i went to the late 1800’s and very early 1900’s. I saw the name Elsie a few times in each year, but hadn’t said anything to Dan yet. Every time i saw it i liked it even more, to the point i was looking for it in the next year. I let Dan search with me and he mentioned it. Which normally we dont agree on names so that in its self was a miracle. We searched for a bit longer still with out talking and he told me to go look the meaning up. So we did and were instantly sold and fell in LOVE. Not to long after that while i was searching the popularity of the name I came across an amazing little blogger over at A Beautiful Mess (such a wonderful blog I follow now). Before i found out we were having a girl and after i found our name, i was on the Vintage Pearl’s site browsing. Low and behold one of her main pictures had the name Elsie on it pared with Eden (Bodie’s friend across the street is named Eden) :) Wow, the Lord was really doing something with preparing my heart for our little girl. In so many different ways.  Her name means;

My God is a Vow

As far as the name Joy, my Grandma’s middle name is Joy. When she told me that when i was really little i was 100% sold on naming my little girl that. As i got older i realized it is actually a name thats pretty common, especially in the christian realm of life. Oh well.  Im not in the least bit concerned with the popularity of the names anymore. Of course i dont want them to burst out, i still love the more original names that are in the background of life. :)

There you have it. Little Miss. Elsie Joy will be making her first marks and screams in the world around April 15th! Until then..


I hope you understand i do not go back and proof read… Nope never, so im sure it sounds and is spelled terrible, but my mommy duties are calling way, WAY louder at the moment, and while i type mostly too a second set of little fingers seems to always find the delete button ;)

Not so original?

You know when you go to the park and hear something you thought was special to you by another mom, and your heart stops, your slightly hyperventilate, and you leave your shattered heart at the park..?

Well that moment happened to me the other day. We do have a girls name picked out for this little one if it is a girl, we’ve had it for a long time now and it was something i thought was totally non-existent as of being popular now.  Wrong, with all my blog surfing ive even stumbled and followed a blog with the Girls names the author. I just hadn’t connected the dots till now. But thats fine b/c she is older and not in the same generation. haha

Turns out we are at the park and a mom and her few little ones showed up. We were all having a great time chasing everyone around and the mom called her daughter by OUR girls name… WHAT?! *que the above situation*

I looked at Dan and he looked at me knowing i was upset and we decided to leave and take a drive. i may have been over reacting but really..? I love names that aren’t the ones on the top 100 baby names list, and is a little more unique. Dont get me wrong, i dont like names that are just totally out of this world, but names that aren’t completely popular at the time.

I actually came across the name on a 1910’s top baby name list.  I saw it a few times before and it kept catching my eye. So I mentioned it to Dan and he told me to look up the meaning.  Once we saw that we were sold.

I guess either way we are sold and in love with the name. (unless i have more park, heart shattering experiences) ;)

Heres a clue, its not hard, but lets just make this fun…

The name is a form of Elizabeth.

AND just because i hate surprises and guessing games myself ill give you another clue :)

The meanign is: My God is a vow

If you ALREADY know the name dont comment and ruin it… :)


And here is a semi updated picture of this pregnancy. This is about the VERY beginning of 15 weeks..? Im 16 now.  :) Movin alog